What’s Up With ADHD?

Oct 24, 2023 by

It is estimated that 10.5 million American adults are living with ADHD. A study published in JAMA, reported that diagnosis of ADHD in...

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Health Benefits of Quiet Sitti...

Jun 4, 2023 by

While you are just sitting in a state of conscious awareness (comfortably and with good posture), do not try to focus your attention...

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Why The Five Stages of Grief A...

May 20, 2023 by

The five stages of grief, proposed by Elisabeth Kübler-Ross, have been widely discussed and studied in the field of psychology. While...

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Why Should I Practice Mindfuln...

Apr 28, 2023 by

Mindfulness is a practice used for reducing stress, improving focus, and increasing happiness. But what exactly is mindfulness, and...

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How to Practice Validating Oth...

Jan 16, 2023 by

Validating another person means that you recognize and accept the other person’s thoughts, feelings, sensations and behaviors as...

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Three Ways to Give Your Life M...

Jan 18, 2022 by

These days, we are all struggling a little because of the pandemic, the economy, and whatever other personal stressors we may be...

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Emotional or Attentional Bids

May 29, 2021 by

John and Julie Gottman, who founded the Gottman Institute in Seattle, WA have written about fundamental units of emotional...

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How to Relieve Stress in the F...

May 18, 2020 by

  Even short moments of connecting to an internal sense of calm and safety will be beneficial during this testing time....

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“Open Ended”

Apr 11, 2020 by

If I jump into this space before me, will I find the ground? The ground for hope? The ground for gratitude? The ground for...

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Healthy Marriage and Relations...

Mar 8, 2019 by

Some people have an idealized version of relational love in their minds.  Even if they come from a home where there is conflict and...

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Contractions and Expansions

Jan 21, 2019 by

     It is the nature of many things to contract and expand.  Your breath is an expansion and a contraction.  Emotions in your...

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On Being Perfect

Jan 16, 2019 by

As a psychotherapist, I have noticed, in the last several years, more and more instances of people who claim to be perfectionists.  I...

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Breathing

Jan 9, 2019 by

With increasing demands on our time and attention, many people find themselves in a state of chronic stress, which leads to anxiety...

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Scarcity

Dec 28, 2018 by

Scarcity means that we place more value on resources that are scarce than those that are in abundance. In psychological terms, this...

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Inner Critics

Apr 3, 2018 by

The Seven Inner Critics: The Perfectionist: Makes it difficult to start or finish things.  Criticizes imperfections. The...

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Confirmation Bias

Apr 3, 2018 by

Confirmation bias is the tendency to interpret new evidence as confirmation of one’s existing belief’s or theories.  This means...

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On Happiness

Sep 22, 2017 by

The field of Positive Psychology emerged about thirty years ago and has expanded as more psychologists and neuroscientists are...

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Mindfulness-Based Eating Aware...

May 4, 2017 by

Mindfulness-Based Eating Awareness  We all eat – and we all eat mindlessly at times.  We might be in a hurry, socializing, or...

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Healthy Boundaries

Nov 6, 2016 by

Having healthy boundaries is vital to our sense of well-being.  If you are often uncomfortable with another person’s treatment of...

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Attachment Styles

May 21, 2016 by

The kind of attachment we form with our primary caregiver(s) when we are infants can have a great impact on our future...

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How to Handle a Difficult Chil...

Feb 22, 2016 by

Parents sit down together and talk about which behaviors need to be modified and what the consequences will be for each of these...

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Neuroplasticity: How to Change...

Aug 26, 2015 by

       Neuroplasticity, also known as brain plasticity, is an umbrella term that encompasses both synaptic...

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Seven Deadly Habits and Seven ...

Mar 21, 2015 by

Seven Deadly Habits and the Seven Caring Habits for Relationships   The following list of Deadly Habits and Caring Habits are from...

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Narcissistic Personality Disor...

Oct 6, 2014 by

The word narcissistic comes from the Greek myth about a young man named Narcissus, who was the son of the river god Cephissus and the...

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Using Your Wise Mind

Sep 27, 2014 by

We are all capable of experiencing wisdom in our lives.  Wise Mind is a core dialectical behavior therapy concept.  DBT was...

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The Four Immeasurables in Budd...

May 26, 2014 by

Central to Buddhist spiritual practice is a deep appreciation of the present moment and the possibilities that exist in the present...

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Emotional Styles: Outlook

May 25, 2014 by

In his book, “The Emotional Life of Your Brain: How its unique patterns affect the way you think, feel and live – and how you can...

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Dimensions of Reality

Jan 19, 2014 by

Existentialists distinguish four basic dimensions of human existence: the physical, social, psychological and spiritual. In each of...

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Clearing Your Mental Clutter

Aug 19, 2013 by

Pay attention to your inner voices – do they create anxiety and agitation? Try slowing your mind down and separating each dialogue...

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What Personal Attributes Will ...

Jul 18, 2013 by

#1. Self-Awareness: Awareness of our own feelings and the ability to use this awareness as a guide in the decision-making process;...

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Upward and Downward Comparison...

Jul 18, 2013 by

In the past, before the advent of television, the internet, and other forms of media, we did not have so many people to whom we could...

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Communication Tips

Apr 1, 2013 by

When we think about communication, we usually think about speaking, but being a good listener is as important as being a good speaker....

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Life After Trauma

Mar 20, 2013 by

Life After Trauma   Are you a victim of a traumatic event that continues to impact your life, or from which you seem unable to...

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Happiness and Negativity

Mar 12, 2013 by

We all imagine that if we are more positive in our thoughts and deeds, we will be happier, but this is not necessarily true. ...

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The Four Horsemen of the Apoca...

Mar 12, 2013 by

John Gottman’s “Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse”*  Criticism: attacking your partner’s personality or character because you...

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A Healthy Brain

Feb 15, 2013 by

Did you know that the composition of your brain is 80% water?  It is also much more delicate than you think.  If you find that your...

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Are you SAD

Feb 15, 2013 by

If you are suffering from Seasonal Affective Disorder (depression and lethargy during the winter months) DO NOT TAKE...

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Antidepressants and the Placeb...

Feb 15, 2013 by

More than ten percent of Americans aged 12 and older are now taking antidepressants.  I find this fact to be outrageous!  Why? ...

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